Saturday, December 24, 2011

Let it snow


Go to google and type "let it snow". Enter key!!! It snows!!!



Merry Christmas! Selamat Natal! Buon Natale! Feliz Natal!

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Journey to become a doctor

photo by @KoasRacun



Hello!


The most pleasing thing is to be back home again :) right?


As you know, I am a medical student, had graduated, which then underwent the clinic (co-ass) and finally my co-ass has been completed sometime in September,2011. Journey to become a doctor does not stop there. I have to undergo the state exam (UKDI) to get through the oath and later graduatedas a doctor.



Now UKDI had been done, the results are already out and I give thanks to God for my graduation. I pass the UKDI thing! hehehehe. with this, I am just waiting for the oath then I become a doctor! what a long long journey~
In November, I forge myself to prepare for UKDI. I have a discussion group with five other people. with them I relearn lessons for five years.



hmm..... I still cant believe that I've reached this point. where I really have become doctors. I remember clearly when I was in high school, my friends and some teachers underestimated me because I choose to be a medical student, this is because I am not the best student in class. But with persistence and hard work and prayer, I finally arrived at this posistion.



My college journey is not always smooth, there's always obstacles. I've had bad grades, broken-hearted moment that destroyed my school and cheating! it was the worst days of my life. but the determination to please my parents and myself, I can go forward. at the clinic I try to be better, try harder and not cheat!



Now I've become a doctor, I have to keep learning. therefore must keep the spirit and still take courage for a better future. :)



for you guys who are in school or collage or are working should also have to keep the spirit of hard work! :)



Teruslah bermimpi karena Tuhan akan merangkul mimpi-mimpi itu.

(keep on dreaming because God will embrace those dreams)

- Andrea Hirata-


semangat!


fighting!


aja!



Sunday, November 20, 2011

Postcrossing

hi guys!

what's new?

Kim Kardashian divorced after a marriage for 72 days.

Lady gaga wins big at EMA 2011.

Yogyakarta experienced an earthquake again several times this month.

And from me, I have a new hobby. Postcrossing and snail mail :)
I love the postcards and letters have been since long time ago, but I never send letters/postcards before. I think there is no one like anything like this anymore. people prefer to chat on facebook, twitter or messenger. but i was wrong. I found this site and its driving me crazy! I started to send a postcard at the end of October. now I hv been a member for 50days and I've sent 11 postcards. I want to send more than that, but there is a maximum amount on each shipment. so I cant sent more. so far I hv got five postcards from around the world.
Human are never satisfied. right? so I do direct/private swap from facebook :)

last time I get 6 postcards in the mailbox. my heart is racing. very excited. boom boom booom. and when I read it, I smile and laugh by myself. hahahaha. some people at the post office saw me strangely. hahahaha.

basically I like all kinds of postcards, but I'm very fond of historical places. maybe because I like history itself and of course its beauty. and I like postcard written and stamped. I usually write about my culture and the photo in the postcard. while I often ask other people (who will send a postcard to me) write about their culture or poetry that they like.

if you guys want to swap with me, please contact me : sista47c@yahoo.com

I will upload the cards that I received later. this time I will share about this poetry from the postcard that I receive today. I cried when reading it. this poem reveals well how I felt.

I know we've been broken up almost as long as we were together.
But I can still feel in my bones and flowing through my blood that our story isn't finished being told.
I know it the same way I know that the sun doesn't stop shining just because it gets dark outside.
I stopped telling people, thought, because I was supposed to have moved on by now, and nobody cares.
But its OK.
I can wait.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Silent Conversation


PAMERAN TUNGGAL SENI RUPA “Silent Conversation” Karya L. Surajiya

11-18 Oktober 2011, pkl. 10:00 – 20:00 di Karta Pustaka, Jl. Bintaran Tengah 16 Yogyakarta

Pembukaan Pameran: Selasa 11 Oktober 2011, pkl. 19:30 oleh Samuel Indratma

Dimeriahkan dengan pertunjukan kolaborasi pembacaan puisi karya L. Surajiya, tari karya dan oleh Arjuni Prasetyo, Musik oleh grup Sido Muncul (pimp. Ki Sumari), Komunitas Studio Gunung, Laskar Merdesa

Penata Musik: Beda Sudiman

Tanpa dipungut biaya

Hampir di setiap kesempatan dalam hidup kita, kita melakukan percakapan. Dari mulai bangun tidur, melampaui hari hingga menjelang tidur, dengan apa yang kita lihat, dengar dan rasa, selalu ada percakapan diam-diam dalam rasa kita. Ketika makan, kita bersentuhan dengan benda-benda piranti makan, dengan makanan yang kita kunyah dan telan, bahkan ketika makanan itu masih asing bagi kita, selalu ada percakapan diam-diam dalam diri kita. Percakapan ini membuka kesadaran kita akan di mana kita berada, apa yang sedang kita lakukan, pun ketika kita dalam kesunyian dan melakukan percakapan dengan Tuhan Sang Pencipta alam dan kehidupan.

Seorang anak juga melakukan percakapan diam-diam. Ketika ia memegang batu, akan berubah menjadi mobil, sebuah sendok menjadi pesawat terbang. Dalam percakapannya, anak-anak menciptakan dunia imajinasinya. Demikian halnya seorang perupa. Ia juga selalu bercakap-cakap dengan alam idenya, renungan-renungannya, dan membangun imajinasinya yang distimulir oleh kehidupan dan realitas di sekelilingnya, kemudian ia visualisasikan ke dalam karya-karyanya.

Surajiya, seorang perupa, yang membuat karya seni visual dari hasil dialog panjang dengan dirinya sendiri, dengan kehidupan di sekelilingnya. Berawal dari karya-karya yang merefleksikan kisah cinta bersifat eros namun menyiratkan pula philio, stergo dan agape, diwujudkan dalam visualisasi wajah di mana-mana, bahkan berbentuk ganda untuk menyatakan apa yang tersembunyi dalam diri. Ekspresi ini dihadirkan dalam rupa sketsa hitam putih, juga dalam goresan penuh warna sebagaimana hidupnya. Warna biru yang mendominasi karya-karyanya, merujuk pada birunya langit dan birunya laut representasi dari kedalaman dan keluasan. Bulan dan pohon dipilihnya untuk mengisyaratkan kelembutan, kedamaian, kesunyian, dan kehidupan yang bermakna dalam.

Tak cukup dengan warna dan bentuk, Surajiya menggunakan pula kata sebagai media ekspresi rasanya, puisi sebagai ruang percakapannya. Baginya, lukisan dan kata-kata dalam puisinya akan saling mengisi dan melengkapi gelombang-gelombang rasa dan riak-riak percakapan dalam batinnya. Ia telah pula menghasilkan berjudul-judul buku kumpulan puisinya. Produktivitasnya dalam menulis puisi saling berganti dengan melukis. Buku-buku dan karya rupanya dalam pameran ini adalah perwujudan dari 'percakapan diam-diam'-nya yang panjang dengan alam dan kehidupan. (***)


repost from : IVAA-ONLINE

Monday, October 3, 2011

postcard

Today I went to the post office, I intend to find a postcard to sent to Russia. But what I found? nothing! I asked the officer, whether at the central post office I can get a postcard, and the answer is no. Because the post office does not sell postcards! *Whattt??!* There are only about 20 postcards that are not interesting, it was selling an old lady in front of the post office.

My struggle to find the postcard does not stop there, I went to a large bookstore, and the result is: I was disappointed. There are only a few postcards only. paper comes from recycled paper, its a godd idea anyway, but the picture does not tell you something. and if I send to Russia, definitely easy to tear.

I went to another bookstore, which is also quite famous in town. and none here.

I was amazed! did not people do not like the postcards anymore? whether the postcard was lost fame than email and massenger? as someone who enjoys writing letters and postcards exchanged, I was disappointed. because for me, although a letter or postcard is a bit inconvenient but it felt really different when compared to email or chatting.

argh!! do you know where I can get a postcard? please let me know.


P.S I've got the postcard I was looking for, but I still need more
I really really like postcard/postcrossing, please send me a postcard, I would greatly appreciate it. I also will reply postcard from you.
contact me at sista47c@yahoo.com to exchange addresses

#books4MTB

#books4MTB: Ayo Bangun Perpustakaan di Maluku Tenggara Barat!

Perpustakaan di Saumlaki, ibukota kabupaten Maluku Tenggara Barat (MTB) adalah ruangan besar berisi rak-rak yang sepi buku. Hanya satu dua baris saja yang terisi. Selain rak, penghuni perpustakaan ini adalah meja-meja yang berderet dengan segelintir kursi yang jumlahnya tak sebanding dengan jumlah meja.

Di Lamdesar Barat -desa di pelosok MTB yang harus ditempuh dengan kapal ferry selama 20 jam dari Saumlaki, dilanjutkan motor laut selama 4 jam- tidak ada perpustakaan. Tidak ada buku bacaan. Tidak ada tawa riang anak-anak ketika menjelajahi halaman per halaman buku.

Membaca buku adalah pengalaman baru bagi mereka.

Tak heran, anak-anak begitu bersemangat datang ke rumah setiap malam demi membaca buku, meskipun listrik mati malam itu. Meskipun penerangnya hanyalah pelita yang nyalanya mulai redup karena minyak tanah habis. Meskipun itu berarti mereka harus terbatuk-batuk setelah menghirup asap hitam hasil pembakaran pelita.

Dalam sekejap, buku baru saya kucel, halamannya terlipat, bahkan ada sobekan disana sini. Tapi saya tersenyum. Anak-anak ini begitu antusias membaca buku. Begitu bersemangat membolak-balik halamannya.Terkagum-kagum melihat gambar beraneka warna.

Orang-orang sering bilang, anak-anak ini malas, tidak mau membaca buku.

Tapi.. Bagaimana bisa membaca ketika buku saja bahkan tidak ada? Ketika koran yang sering digunakan untuk bungkus makanan di Jawa pun tidak menjangkau MTB, kabupaten paling tenggara di Indonesia.

Oleh karenanya, kami Pengajar Muda dari Gerakan Indonesia Mengajar yang ditugaskan di Maluku Tenggara Barat, ingin mengajak anda sekalian untuk menyumbangkan buku, berapapun jumlahnya. Buku bisa berupa buku pelajaran atau buku bacaan anak, seperti majalah anak, buku cerita bergambar, komik, dll. Selain buku untuk anak-anak, bisa juga sumbangkan buku berbagai genre untuk pemuda dan orang tua. Karena di desa Lamdesar Barat, juga desa-desa lain di MTB, bukan hanya anak-anak yang ingin membaca, bukan hanya anak-anak yang ingin belajar.

Karena daerah penempatan saya tidak terjangkau sinyal, silakan hubungi Taofan (0817227100) - Jogja untuk ikut menyumbangkan buku. Atau langsung drop buku di markas CSM Cargo :

Jakarta :

CSM Cargo, (Pak Rahmad, 0218313132) Jl.Manggarai utara 6 no 9 Jakarta Timur

Semarang :

CSM Cargo Semarang, (Bu Nunik, 02470281160) Jl. Satria H 229 Semarang

Surabaya :

CSM Cargo Surabaya, (Pak Agung, 031 77336755) Jl. Johar II no 8 Surabaya

CSM Cargo akan mengirimkan buku-buku tersebut secara GRATIS!

Bisa juga donasi uang lewat :

No. Rekening : 0651 – 01 – 005686 – 50 – 3

Nama Bank : Bank BRI – KCP CIKAJANG

Atas Nama : Yayasan Gerakan Indonesia Mengajar

Tambahkan Rp 1,- untuk setiap donasi yang ditransfer, misal : Rp 100.001,-

Konfirmasi ke Taofan (0817227100) setelah mentransfer dengan format :

BUKU (spasi) jumlah transfer

Uang yang terkumpul akan digunakan untuk membeli buku bacaan anak.

Selain donasi buku lewat program #books4MTB, kami juga mengajak anda -maupun anak-anak anda- untuk mengirim surat ke anak-anak di SD tempat Pengajar Muda ditugaskan melalui program #letters4MTB. Berceritalah tentang segala hal, bagikanlah semangat dan mimpi anda, agar anak-anak bisa melihat dunia lewat kisah yang tertuang dalam selembar kertas, dan mempunyai keberanian untuk bermimpi!

Buku dan surat bisa juga langsung dikirimkan ke :

Matilda Narulita (Indonesia Mengajar)

d.a. Marthen R. Bebena

Jl. Ir. Soekarno (samping Polres)

Saumlaki, Kab. Maluku Tenggara Barat

Propinsi Maluku

Perpustakaan yang akan kita bangun bersama ini bukan sekedar rak-rak berisi tumpukan buku, melainkan tempat anak mengembangkan imajinasi, tempat anak menemukan inspirasi, dan tempat anak membangun mimpi.

Libraries are not made; they grow.

Augustine Birrell

Tunggu apa lagi! mari berbagi :) "sista"

tulisan ini ditulis oleh Matilda - Pengajar muda MTB di dalam situs ini

klik kesini untuk membaca tulisan matilda yang baru


Tuesday, September 27, 2011

co-ass





Monday, September 5, 2011

chasing cars meaning


We'll do it all
Everything
On our own
We don't need
Anything Or anyone


I know how this feels. You're so in love with someone,you don't care what anyone else tells you to do, even if the person is all wrong for you. If you love them, you do what you want.



If I lay here
If I just lay here Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

You just want to ignore everything else, to have that perfect moment, to forget all the bad things that may be going on around you.
I don't quite know
How to say
How I feel
Those three words
Are said too much
They're not enough

When you're in love, I love you can't fully express how you feel. It's said too often, too casually, to give the full meaning that you have inside.

Let's waste time
Chasing cars
Around our heads
This bit, I think may be just about wasting time in meaningless ways, just so you can be with that person a little bit longer.


I need your grace
To remind me
To find my own


You find a peace, a goodness, a happiness in that person, you want to be able to find it inside yourself, so that they feel the same way with you.


All that I am
All that I ever was
Is here in your perfect eyes, they're all I can see


Could be metaphoric for you seeing yourself reflected in their eyes and you feel like you are a better because of them. Like you are even a part of them, and they are of you.

I don't know where
Confused about how as well
Just know that these things will never chage for us at all

You may not remember where or how you met them, but you know you love them and you know that you wan to always love them. And you don't know what is going to happen later, but you don't want to stop being in love with them.

this is long and may be off track, but it works for me. :)


Tuesday, August 30, 2011

food hunter : Parsley

When I frist create a blog, I just write about the love story and some of my views on life. but after all this time I sunk into a black-fucking-hole of love, so I left the world of writing. I never touch my blog for more than a year. I was awakened by my friend, Alex. In his blog he can write it all. his viewa on life, his frustration, his pleasures, his feelings. and I thought, WHY NOT? if I didnt start it, I would never write again. Until then (the time where I could write about the love story and other views of life again) I'll try to write about my daily life. nevertheless we can make something big from something small right? I could write about what I do in my work, my favorite cafes, shoe, travelling, or food!!!

and here I am, I previously had told you guys about my shoes. This time I will share about the food!!! oohhh I'm so excited :) I was not a food critic, I just connoisseur :p

but not all kind of food I can enjoy, I'm not vegan or vegetarian, but I dont eat certain organs of animals. I also cant eat too spicy food. I have bad memory with the chili things, that make me never eat chili or spicy food until I graduate from college. I dont even want to eat chili powder in instant noodles. :'( I will not tell my trauma here, slowly I forget it, and try to love spicy food :)
Now I'm working in a remote area in Java, so when I went back to Jogjakarta, I often hunt for food. And yesterday I ended up in a restaurant that was always my passion, Parsley.

Parsley itself is a famous cake and bakery in Jogjakarta. My family prefer this bakery because of its quality. Same price as other bakery (sometime there are more expensive) but the quality is unquestionable. Bread here for me like a god. They make bread like the Italian make Pizza. they know what they make, no kidding. Variety of breads available from whear bread, white bread, sweet breads and sandwiches. Garlic bread is my favorite all the time. Simple, tasty and tender. Suitable eaten with milk or tea in the morning, fitting to start the day. Wheat bread here is different from those in other places, could be an option for a family breakfast menu. simply served with undercooked eggs and milk or simply with yogurt.

and the most famous and MOST BRILLIANT cake in this place is THE OPERA CAKE. You could feel the chocolate melting and wetting your lips and mouth. You can feel the softness of this cake until the last bite. and you will not feel satisfied with one or two bites. it feels so incredible. I can say, When I eat thin fuckin-beautiful cake I can feel that the world stopped moving just to wait for me finish it. Buuutt,,, sorry I have to say, other cake here just "good enough".

After a while this place is only a patisserie and bakery, then this palce build this beautiful and warm resto. the food available there are various kind, from Indonesian to International cuisine. Indonesia food that I reccommend is the Sop Buntut (oxtail soup) and Iga Bakar (grilled ribs). both very tasty and hv international flavor without leaving the taste of Indonesia itself.
Western menu that I like here is the Chicken Cordon Bleu and abso-fuckin-lutly the Australian beef steak. Australian beef steak I choose to cook it well done. and it fit perfectly, tender meat combined with a sweet brown sauce and a bit spicy from the pepper. Served with french fries really tempting. and I got a different dish from the Chicken Cordon Bleu. Chicken with cheese and ham in it, cooked perfectly, then combined with mayonnaise sauce, mashed potatoes and spinach cooked gently. I took a little piece of meat to get the perfect bite. I cant tell it better. You should try it yourself! :)

In Parsley there is also a menu of pasta such as spaghetti and lasagna. but I've never tried it. Other times I have to try! from the price I have seen portions of lasagna was probably not too much (only $2,5) but I dont know about the taste, I hope not as cheap as its price. Nah, the other food I have ever tried here is this Cheese Burger. Burger with a thick meat, cheese, eggs and vegetables served with french fries. the Burger was so great dan big, until my brother wondering how to eat it (he used to eat a bite directly rather than placed in a plate and eat with knife and fork). Pretty tasty burger but I was wondering why they add the eggs in in??? I think the eggs spoil the whole burger ;(

oh I forgot about the fruit salad that I ordered. I was surprised when my order comes. its in the salad bowl that is very very large, although the portion is ordinary. but if more that that I might not be able eat my main course. in that salad there are various kinds of fruit, like most other fruit salad, but different is combined with lettuce and mayonnaise typical of this place. sweet and sour taste combined into one. suitable for the appetite to eat before entering the main dish.

now I will not say much more, let the pictures fo the talking. photo quality less good cause it was taken from Iphone.

Iga Bakar (grilled ribs) : so International so Indonesian :)

Australian beef steak : sweet and spicy, so yummy

Chicken Cordon Bleu : the best in Jogjakarta so far

forgot this one. but so deliciouso.

Cheese Burger : with awkward egg :))

I heart shoes

Everyone has their own preference on mode. men - women, old - young, all have their own taste.
There are people who devote their lives entirely to fashion and some that prefer to enjoy fashion. On the first point, I would immediately imagine Carrie Bradshaw in "Sex and The City". she is gloritying fashion. Her style, her clothes, her shoes....... oohhhh everything is very very fashionable. I thought maybe she could die if there is no fashion. *LOL*
There are also people who are paying less attention to fashion, they buy/have something not based on
hid favoriite of fashion but rather necessity. As an example : everyone needs a shihrt and pants, they inevitablu have to go to he boutique and buy it. For those who are fond of fashion they will follow or buy the latest mode or buying a particular brand. But there is also people buy based on budgets or specific preferences (certain color or specific model).
"The Devils Wears Prada" is a simple example. Anne Hathaway plays someone who does not care about fashion, but theenn had to turn 180 degrees, loves fashion!!!
But here, I will not discuss more about fashion, because I also do not quite understand and observe about that, let the experts discuss it. In my own world of fashion, I am current opponents. I have no particular reason, I just love it. When straight hair is the latest model, I make my hair curly. When people are busy wearing flat shoes, I love heels. When people fight over a maxi dress, I wore my lovely shirt. Something that was always my passion and I never leave behind is Sabrina, Jeans, and of course Wedges. :)

This time I will tell you a bit about me and my shoes. Shoes is something that is important to me. ooohhhhh I love the shoes since I was little, somehow I was always impressed with the shoe. maybe because I watched too many Cinderella OR just because of the influence of my mom. I remeber one of my mother student's said she always admired my mother's shoes.
My mom has a lot of shoes. She changed shoes as she changed clothes! her choice of shoes is always exciting and beautiful, whether brand or not. I remember that I used to sneak into the back room to try her shoes. yaaahhh ... of course shoes look great in my tiny feet ^^ but I am always happy to try it, I will proudly wear it around the room with.
back then, I'll save my money to buy books and shoes. at that time I was more concerned with quantity than quality. I could buy some cheap shoes that could keep changing. and of course the shoes were the newest models. but now I am more concerned with the quality. I dont mind the price, I could buy a cheap or expensive as long as its comfortable to use. Ease for me to not buy clothes for 6months to almost a year or even more, I'll wear my old one until the color faded, but I cant stand by when my shoes are not comfortable to wear. I need good and comfortable shoes for my ordinary life. I have an ortostatic hypotension, where if I stand too long, my blood pressure goes down. Other that that I would feel very tired and loww back pain.

And like most people, I have some shoes for several different events. I had flat shoes for school and work, sandals to play, heels for formal event and other shoes that I cant put into categories, wedges!!! somehow I really love the stuff on this one, wedges is FUN and FASHIONABLE, TIMELESS.


The problem is the size! i hate my BIG feet. B I G !!! (10inches!!!! ~ 9 in US~ 40 in europe). we cant ignore about the size, right? as good as any shoe, it will not be beautiful and comfortable to wear if the size does not fit. :'( I was often difficult to find sizes and models of shoes that fit me. if there is a model I like, its size does not fit. sometimes there is the right size but I dont like the model or color. so its very difficult to find shoes that fir for me. for my heart and legs.

oh I forget to tell, I still often sneak to try the shoes, especially new shoes. and the sad thing is I can not try that lovely shoes! yup didnt fit in my big big big feet :'(



Saturday, August 20, 2011

twitter : follow-mute-block-unfollow



twitter.
who does not know? I think almost everyone is familiar with it, and even adults and children. twitter popularity in cyberspace was no doubt. like facebook, twitter is an online social networking and microblogging service that enanles it users to send and read text based posts of up to 140 characters, informally know as "tweets".

and like others, I also twitter junkies :) I already have a twitter account since March 2009, exactly two years after the twitter made. back then, Twitter is still not very well known in Indonesia. although in other countries are much more popular than facebook.
actually long before I made my account, I already know about it, but I dont want to know more, then in 2009 I made an account. and my friend from Indonesia was less than 10 people. more of my friends from other countries, so I tweet in english.

now twitter has been more popular in Indonesia. most people have started to leave facebook, and maybe even have every few people who still have friendster. hahaha.
uhmmm.... okay. this was the problem. there are people who follow me, but I dont want her to folllow me. hahahaha *evil laugh*
twitter is a place to say what in my mind. including if I'm upset or having a bad day. twitter is one place where I pour out my feelings. I myself do not just tweet about things that are fun only. because if so I like to build a fine image. if I'm upset with someone, and I cant say it directly to that person, I will write in twitter. if that person is follow me and read my tweet - and she felt - and then in turn - its good. but if not it would only fuel more problems between us.
indeed when we dont like someone, we should not publish it. because its bad and can be interpreted as affecting other people (even thought we didnt mean it).
in my tweet, I never mention the people I dont like, I just tweet about the situation at that moment. now, Im really not like someone, she's very very selfish. I cant stand it anymore. she's follow me, and I dont like it. some people suggest about to block/mute her, but when we block/mute someone in twitter, she will not see my tweet in her timeline, but she can still read my tweet if she open my profile. there are no full block in twitter as in facebook.
i dont want her see my timeline, and this is impossible in twitter. so the best solution for me is unfollow her. hahahaha. its just for her.

Thursday, August 18, 2011

new theme : frustrating


hiiii guys.....

this is my new tumblr theme :) i love it so badly. hahahaha . I liked my previous theme, but it didn't really work out as I expected it to be.
it took a while to finish cuztomizing
this stuff, because I do not like the available themes, I want to make my own. but I can't find where I can change it. so I look for themes that are already available on cherry bam afterI found that I liked, I tried to follow the instructions provided. but this makes me frustated. I cant find the "use custom html"
people suggest to use sadari(I use google chrome) but still have not found it. I was tinkering my chrome, Im sure there's a way!!! some people say to try with a larger laptop (im using benq joybook lite U101) but I insist to find it myself. because I sure can. and I found a surefire way. this is actually easy if we use our logic. hahahaha.


I not only selected this theme because it contains my favorite design but also because of the aesthetics it brings to my site. so what do you think about the new theme? please feel free to comment with what you think :)

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

something that inspires

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

.soulmate.

soulmate.

what we know about soulmate? I do not even know for sure what it means. nevertheless, for me this is a very strong word and has character.
if it was talking about soulmate, must always appear a variety of questions. for example: what's soulmate? what we're going to find it? who is my soulmate? and who can answer these questions? ourselves!!!

a friend of minde said that soulmate is her boyfriend. her boyfriend is her lover, her soulmate.
my other firend said that the husband is a soulmate. married only once, so whoever her husband that her soulmate. then I ask : what about people who marry more than once? who is the real soulmate? and a moment later she fell silent. she can no longer speak. hahaha *evil laugh*


maybe my question was too harsh but this is realistic. out there are many people divorce. and I never understood why it happened. if the reason is incompatibility, why was forced to get married? if the problem is the economy or ego or third person, why they did not fight harder? WHY?!

I believe every person has his soulmate. maybe they find it, maybe not. but for those who do not find it, I think it was a mistake. because they would have found it jus did not realize it. I think soulmate is not only (opposite sex) that we love. but rather to those we love and love us.

for those who are divorced, x-husband/wife does not mean they are not their soulmate. because in essence, a soul mate to teach about love, and that makes us grow and develop into mature souls, though in painful way.

now I do not have a lover. but I have a soulmate. I have someone I love so much, until my heart sometimes ca not hold them. he had been present in my life, though not long, his presence in my heart will continue to exist. besides him, I have my other soul mates, my family and friends.

in the literature I get a sense of soulmate. "a soulmate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity, similarity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality or compatibility." and for me these are my soulmate :)
my family
rindha-ratna
koas ale
dian-tia-shinta-icha-ome-diki-ai-sesa
ilham-angel-dewi-diane-hani-tutut-alex-yulia-nika-cucok-mera-danto
my fav quote :
A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life. - Richard Bach, author ofJonathan Livingston Seagull



There was an error in this gadget